Learn to Love Mondays

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Mondays, ugh. Mention Mondayitis to anyone and they’ll grimly nod their head in agreement.

But does it have to be this way? 

Here are some tactics to help you start your week with a smile on your face.

Start fresh

The path to an enjoyable Monday begins on Friday. I know you want to get to happy hour, but spend the last 15 minutes of the week clearing your desk, doing your filing, and tying up any loose ends before you head off for the weekend. After all, you’re not likely to look forward to returning to the office if there’s paperwork everywhere and an out-of-control inbox.

Go one step further and prepare your to-do list and you’ll be able to start your week off with an uncluttered workspace and a clear focus.

Do what you love (or at least try to love what you do)

It’s not always that easy, I know. But the fact is we spend so much time at work (whether work to you means a cubicle, your home office, or at home with the kids) that having our occupation be something that we enjoy plays a huge role in determining how content we are with life. If you’re not there yet, perhaps it’s time to hunt for something new, gain some new training that will improve your future prospects, or talk with your boss/spouse/colleagues to try to minimize some of the issues you’re having.

If you can’t change your situation, try changing your attitude instead! Next time you complain about your job, consider how it’s paying for your upcoming dream holiday. Or when you’re stressed about your home-based business, be thankful that it allows you the flexibility to stay home with your children like you always wanted.

Plan ahead

Do weekdays remind you of frantic mornings getting yourself (and the rest of the family) ready and out the door, and exhausted evenings trying to pick up dinner on the way home?

Spending a couple of hours on the weekend planning the week’s meals and doing a “big shop” — rather than relying on the 6:00 p.m. supermarket dash every day — will save you bucketloads of time and ease the daily mealtime stress. As a bonus, you’ll probably find yourself saving money and cooking healthier, more interesting meals.

Then, before bedtime, dedicate a portion of your time to an evening routine that could include tasks such as making lunches, packing bags, and laying out clothes. Anything that you can do the night before will make your morning that much easier.

Rest and rejuvenate

It’s tempting to stay up late on Sunday night in an attempt to prolong the weekend. But be honest with yourself, that extra TV show (or two) is not doing you any favours. Have an early night on Sundays and you’ll wake up with a spring in your step.

Better yet, spend some time on Sunday night doing something for yourself. Lock yourself in the bathroom and have a relaxing soak, curl up in bed with a book, or paint your nails so you feel pretty all week.

Get up early

“Are you crazy, woman?!” I hear you say. “It’s already hard enough getting up on a Monday!”

I know, but hear me out. Getting up early will enable you to start your week the way you want, before you have to deal with the kids, the boss, the inbox, and the peak hour traffic.

It could mean sitting quietly and savouring your coffee, practising your guitar, playing with your dog, reading a book, meditating, journalling, exercising… anything that you feel like you maybe don’t have time to do normally but that you need to do to remain happy and fulfilled.

Schedule some fun

If you see weekends as for fun and weekdays as purely for work, no wonder you’re not excited when the new week rolls around! Try scheduling something fun for Monday nights, like coffee with a friend, pizza & movie night at home, or your stitch’n'bitch craft meetup.

Getting through your Monday will be that much easier knowing you have something to look forward to in the evening.

Tweak the little things

You may feel like work is work and there’s no time to think of yourself during the day, but you can do a few hacks to make it more enjoyable.

For example, listen to a podcast on your commute, wear your favourite shoes to work, have fresh flowers on your desk, or take your fancy tea to the office to enjoy every day.

What do you do to make Mondays better? Share your tips in the comments!

art to inspire: life is about choices

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Are Monday mornings difficult for you?

I get it. I’ve been there. But the good thing about the first day of the week is that you have a choice.

You can either look at Monday as the toughest day of the week OR you can make it the most productive day of the week. That choice is yours to make. It might not be an easy decision (procrastination is far easier of course), but it’s your call.

And just as you have that choice to make for yourself at the start of every week, you also have another choice…

And perhaps, this one is far more important than the first. Here it is:

You can choose to turn your words, your plans, into actions or just leave those words flailing in the wind.

Well, duh. You’ve heard that before, right? Actions speak louder than words. Of course you’ve heard it. We’ve all heard that.

But are you living that mantra right now?

Take a minute to think about it. Really think about that question and answer it in your mind.

If your answer is “yes,” pat yourself on the back and keep on moving in that direction. Nothing more to read here. But if your answer is “no” or “kind of,” it is time to get off your booty and make a change.

Talk is cheap. So it’s time to step up and actually do what you’ve been talking about doing for months. Consider this your wake up call. Your friendly reminder. Your gentle, or not so gentle, nudge into greatness.

If you don’t start now – as in right now, this very day – when will you?

Step into action now.

Let the comments section be your accountability buddy today. Tell me below how you will take action this week and turn those words into something more.

weekly welcome :: blogger’s block

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closed photograph by shadowplaysnaps

so what happens when you write two popular friday afternoon posts? you feel a lot of pressure to churn out a third successful friday afternoon post. but, as you may note, this isn’t friday… it’s monday!

yep. i’ve got blogger’s block. which is pretty sad considering i wrote the [e]book on beating blogger’s block. well, this one is totally self-imposed. don’t you hate how sometimes you force yourself to be creative? nothing good can come of it!

so i need your help. here’s what i propose. you ask me a formspring (which has got to be the coolest new social media tool out there!) and i’ll craft a few posts with my answers! and while i do answer blogging & marketing questions over at tg, i’d love for you to ask some random questions that might jog my little creative bloggy brain back in shape!

in other news, last week i told scoutie girl she needed a bath and she came out look at fresh & clean & pretty! if you read sg in a feed reader, you should pop over to the site and take a look at the new fresh look. i’ve also added a few areas to display more content – on the left sidebar, you can see the last post from each of the sg contributors and in the top navigation, you can browse by topic or see my more creative writing.

i hope your monday starts off on the right foot – be back in a bit!

monday morning :: indestructible

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i am indestructible.

friends, lovers, even family will join our lives & then depart. ideas may come & go. my business will grow. my business may shrink. one day you’ll think i’m brilliant – the next, a fraud. when all that seems is consistent is change, that will change too.

i can’t control the outside. but i can control the inside. i am indestructible.

for as long as i’m on this earth – my will, my creativity, and my thought is indestructible.

and so are you.

ashley jewelry - pebble ring

welcome back to scoutie girl on this fine monday morning! it’s march 1 – and that means three things to me:

  • my husband got a year older yesterday!
  • spring is right around the corner.
  • and i have a bunch of new sponsors to welcome & thank!

there’s a real fresh crop of shops on the right side. so please click through and welcome them with a bit of monday morning shopping!

the rings above are by ashley akers jewelry. each is constructed from a sterling silver band and a real pebble. no two are a like! why’d they catch my eye? i figure they’re indestructible. just like me.

monday morning welcome!

52 Weeks of Blogging Your Passion

welcome back, dear readers!

what a weekend! here in on the east coast, we had a doozy of a storm that meant spending all of saturday at home. a much need opportunity for catching up, relaxing, and holiday cheer!

i was also able to finish preparations for launching my ebook this weekend. 52 weeks of blogging your passion is designed to give you tools for building your blog’s traffic, beating blogger’s block, and communicating your creativity.

there are 11 pages of plain-english information on crafting a mission statement, search engine optimization, engaging readers, and organizing your blog. then, there are 52 weekly prompts for helping you stay on track, blogging confidently and with purpose! there’s even a planning calendar to print out to jot down ideas as they come.

at only $15, it’s a small investment to start 2010 as a more confident, less stressed blogger! for more information, download a sample, or to purchase, click here!

now… how would you like to win a copy? okay, that’s easy. click on over to twitter and tweet this message:

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you have until 6am EST on tuesday, december 22. you’re welcome to enter multiple times. i’ll choose a winner at random!