Commit Small Acts of Random Abundance

If you live in the United States, chances are that today you have plans to gather ’round a giant turkey (or Tofurky!) with your loved ones and enjoy a feast. A giant celebration of abundance, indulgence, and maybe even a nap, too.

Taking a day to celebrate the bounty of life and meditate on gratitude is a wonderful thing, and I wish everyone celebrating Thanksgiving – or not – an amazing day.

But what are we all going to do tomorrow? Or the day after? In my neck of the woods, beyond leftovers, Black Friday Madness, and December holidays there is winter. Where will our abundance be then?

I’m here, before the hustle and bustle of the meal, before naps in front of the football game, to remind you to bring today’s sense of abundance and greatness to all your days. For both yourself and your work.

Why is this important? Here’s one of my favorite quotes from The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron, on art and abundance:

For those of us who have become artistically anorectic – yearning to be creative and refusing to feed that hunger in ourselves so that we become more and more focused on our deprivation – a little authentic luxury can go a long way. The key word here is authentic.

“Because art is born in expansion, in a belief in sufficient supply, it is critical that we pamper ourselves for the sense of abundance it brings to us. A box of raspberries or a small bouquet can bring a big shift in optimism.”

I found this to be true.

Practicing small acts of random abundance lets me live in a mindset of possibility.

It allows me to be flexible and spontaneous. All of which are vital to making my art, as well.

Now, I’m in no way recommending you go broke here. But there are many things we can do that we say no to. There is an almost imperceptible internal dialogue going on when I am choosing whether to make a small act of abundance or not, though it usually boils down to a matter of minutes or pennies.

In that moment of debate I’m either choosing to say yes to a tiny happiness, to a sense of always having enough, to enjoying small impracticalities, or saying yes to worry, fear, a sense of lack, and small-mindedness.

I’m here to remind you (and myself) to err on the side of hugeness. Of abundance.

Here are some of my favorite random acts of abundance:

  • Randomly buying my husband flowers as a way of saying thank you.
  • Sometimes saying yes to a small thing my stepdaughter is asking for. It’s important for her to learn to budget, but it’s also important for her to feel that there is enough.
  • Not skimping on the small things. Drinking the best green tea, eating good chocolate, writing with my favorite pen. Making sure I have little bits of things I will enjoy, instead of not-so-great things I bought in bulk.
  • Feeling abundant with my time. Twenty minutes curled up with a novel or snuggling my son or husband will not significantly detract from my productivity, but will go far in making me feel good that day.
  • Giving things away that are no longer useful to me but could make someone else’s day, like when I passed on my obsolete Baby Bjorn. Do I really want to spend my time trying to make a couple bucks on Craigslist or just make someone (and myself) really happy?

Small acts of abundance in everyday life are acts of faith – faith that more is on the way, that we will be okay, that we have all we need.

The act of making a creative idea a reality and sending it out into the world to live is also an act of faith – faith that we will have more ideas to share, that our well is endless.

It’s the same state of mind, act of faith. Abundance and art feed each other.

So, of course, my Creative Call to Action for you is this: Commit random acts of abundance in your everday life. Start by doing one small act a day for the next week. I’ll be doing it with you, starting tomorrow, over on the Edison Rex blog. Join me and share your adventures in abundance!

Mindful Spending: 5 Times I Choose to Spend More

tear drop handmade bedding

Choosing to be mindful of your spending, to choose to pay more can be a nerve wracking decision. Other times, it’s pretty cut and dry. Here are five times I choose to spend more:

  1. When I don’t want to buy another one in a week, a month, a year – or 5 years.
  2. When I want the person who made it to live in a house like mine, eat food like mine, and have similar goals to mine.
  3. When I want the quality of materials to be greater than the distance it traveled to get to me.
  4. When my child uses it.
  5. When it will make my life easier.

When do you choose to spend more?

For 3 reasons why you should pay more for your stuff, check out my original mindful spending mini manifesto.

{above: handmade bedding by patapri via modish}

on the luxury of chocolate cake

tsusweetnami illustration by justin richel
tsuweetnami illustration by justin richel

let’s talk about chocolate cake.

i like chocolate cake a lot. like, more than i should. like i exercise to eat chocolate cake, i skimp on other meals to eat chocolate cake, i use philosophical mind games to justify the eating of chocolate cake.

i’m eating chocolate cake right now.

during the week, i behave myself: eat healthy, fruit for dessert, long walks with lola, much moderation. but on the weekends, i binge. and i’m okay with that. that regular, predictable but oh-so-joyous routine of binging on a decadent dessert makes life grand. chocolate cake – or ice cream, or cookies… – gives me a few moments of personal bliss. it’s not something i really ever deny myself at the right time.

is it a necessity? certainly not.

can i imagine my weekends without a bit of indulgence? absolutely not.

miniature cake pendant by sillychic
miniature cake pendant by sillychic

defining luxury

as a school child, we’re taught about the necessities of life. we need air, water, food, and shelter to live. put simply, cut off too long from any one of these things, we wither & die.

earlier this week, i asked: is art a luxury? and you replied with a variety of answers i could not have imagined!

one such comment pointed out that while art may not be something we require to live, it is necessary for the formation of culture, the thing that makes us human, makes us more than individual beings. so while things like cable tv, down comforters, and iphones (gah!) may be luxuries, art & chocolate cake art not. they makes us who we are and at the same time give us moments of personal clarity when we are more than the sum of our parts. art brings us joy and inspiration. so does chocolate cake.

cupcake push pins by bearduck
hostess cake push pins by bearduck

the luxury of creating

to me, what truly separates art & chocolate cake from the realm of luxury is our ability to create them ourselves. given a little time, a few simple materials, and a bit of inspiration, we can have art or chocolate cake whenever we’d like! while some people may specialize in the creation of these wonderful things, each of us has within us the power to create them.

because both chocolate cake & art are not only joys to consume but joys to produce, people who specialize in their creation are also very generous! at a dinner party, your host will not only cook you a delicious meal but will end that meal with a delightful dessert – free of charge, simply for the exchange of your company. artists are also exceptionally generous, consider jen’s feed your soul art project. awesome indie artists from all over the world contribute free pieces that you can print out and enjoy!

there is simply no reason to live without art!

the joy of consuming luxury

but i think what really gets me excited about living with art is our ability to bring art into our lives in so many practical ways. in my own personal definition, this is where art meets craft (but that’s another post, another day). one of the best parts of the indie craft movement is the way you can incorporate art, beauty, and design into your daily life by purchasing handmade goods: tea towels, office supplies, children’s toys, handbags, shoes, jewelry, magnets, plates, mugs, journals – you name it!

art is accessible in more ways than ever before!

luxury, by definition, is scarce, hard to get, expensive. art can be all of those things, true. but art is now also practical, abundant, available for any budget. we now have the luxury of consuming art with wild abandon. and i hope you take advantage of it!

i’m going to go have more chocolate cake.

we scout wednesday :: is art a luxury?

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ceramic cups by cinderelish

lots of great discussion here (and here, and here) over the last couple of weeks. and that’s led me to the question:

is art a luxury?

is it something you can’t live without or something you skimp on in hard times? what do you think?

here’s how we scout wednesdays work: write your own answer on your blog (or twitter, or facebook… anywhere you can answer the question) and link back to scoutie girl. then come back to this post and live a to your answer in the mister linky below! voila!

looking forward to reading your answers!