Do what you say you’re going to do.
Do what you say you’re going to do.
Do what you say you’re going to do.

For me, this is the hardest of all life principles. But it’s a mantra that Danielle LaPorte lives, works, and plays by.

I get down on myself for not doing what I say I’m going to do: for not following up, for not keeping in touch, for not delivering by my self-imposed deadline. I beat myself up and question my own worthiness.

But the lesson here is not as simple as “do what you say you’re going to do. And if you don’t do it, you don’t deserve to move forward.” The lesson is:

Don’t say what you’re not going to do.

The lesson is to learn when enough is enough, when soon is really too soon, when good intentions are just a cover for disinterest.

“I’ll call you tomorrow.” . . . “I’ll send you the link.” . . . “I’ll do my best.” If you don’t mean it with every bone in your body, then just don’t say it. Pause. Say thank-you. Say how you feel. Say nothing at all. Habitual convo-filler sucks wind. I can’t scientifically prove it, but empty promises are bad for the ozone.
– Danielle LaPorte, The Fire Starter Sessions

Pause. That’s something I need to do more often. Think before I speak. Clear the calendar before I commit.

Maybe you do too?

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