These past few weeks I’ve been reflecting on the year past and the many things that materialized for me in 2012. The list is long, ranging from piloted workshops, PDF booklets and new consultation services, to new artwork, new connections, and my contributions here.
Though I know there were many factors at play, in hindsight, I attribute much of my ability to make these things happen to my chosen theme for the year: moving through trepidation with curiosity and action.
This new-to-me approach worked so well, I intend to keep it in my back pocket as I move forward into 2013.
How it works: It’s simple, but not always easy.
When faced with an opportunity that scares you, what if you set out with the goal of replacing fear with possibility, of replacing…
“I could never do that, I’m not ready. It scares me.”
“What do I need to do to be ready? Is there a small action I can take and see where that leads?”
“I better not push my luck and do that extra <insert challenging task here>, I’m already pretty tired and I’m new to this.”
“How about I try and see how far I can get?”
“Who am I to do <insert idea/initiative/project here>? I’m going to fall flat on my face.”
“Just try it and see how it goes. If it flops, re-think it. If it doesn’t, do it again and make it better.”
When faced with uncertainty, instead of worrying about every possible way things could wrong, what if you tried asking yourself*…
“I wonder how this is going to pan out?”
“I wonder how I’ll choose to handle this?”
“Is there anything I can do to increase my chances of making this work?”
(* Thank you Susan Jeffers for this line of wisdom.)
Fear has its place and raison d’être, but often it doesn’t serve us at all.
This way of approaching it encourages gentle risk-taking and releases expectations. At worst it amounts to a lesson learned; at best, it may lead to something better than we ever could have imagined.
Why don’t you try it and see how it all pans out?