excerpt: The Month of Invitation – 52 MORE Weeks of Blogging Your Passion

An excerpt from the first chapter – The Month of Invitation – of my new ebook, 52 MORE Weeks of Blogging Your Passion.

Writing a blog is not a solo act. Writing a blog is about forging a community out of passersby. It’s about weaving with people – over, under, through the warp and weft of your common interests.

Writing a blog is not a monologue. It’s a conversation.

But in order to have conversation we have to invite people to join in our journey. We must invite people to walk alongside us as we create opportunities for discovery, inspiration, and purpose. Without fellow journeymen, our blogs are lifeless.

So for this month, consider how you will extend an invitation to those who you will meet along the way.

The easiest way I’ve found to create a sense of invitation is to use shared experience. What do you share with these readers that you seek to find? How will they know that they’re in the right spot once they’ve stumbled upon (perhaps literally) your site?

Once you’ve established shared experience, you must establish a shared problem or need. You may have already worked through this problem. You might be on the other side looking back to help others over the hurdle. But you can relate to the feeling of helplessness that your potential readers feel.

Use that feeling – and the problem it comes from – as an invitation.

If you’re a brand new blogger, you may start with your friends & family. Look to them to help to help send out the invitations. Ask them who they know that shares your experience & has the needs you hope to fulfill.

Even our friends & family have powerful tools – email and Facebook – for recruiting people for your new community.

If you’ve been at this for a bit and are struggling to find more people to invite to your community, consider looking outside your niche & network. Join others communities, participate in new networks, and form new alliances to spread your invitation far & wide.

To create a conversation & community with your blog, you must first send the invitations.

52 MORE Weeks of Blogging Your Passion is now available for preorder! Buy today for a special discount & invite to an exclusive webinar with me. You’ll receive the first 3 chapters today – 14 writing prompts – and receive the full ebook on September 22. To start blogging with intention, engaging your readers, and building a community around your blog, click here!

28 things to do while I’m 28

Tomorrow, I turn 28. Some of you are going to say “oh! You’re so young!” Go ahead… get it out of your system, I’ll wait.

Done? Cool. I don’t feel old – still waiting for that magic 3-0 that I’ve been longing for since I was about 12. Yeah, I was that kind of kid. But I do have a long list of things that I wish I would have accomplished by now.

No matter, no better time than the present, right?

This year is going to be one of the strangest and most exciting of my life. I can tell. I’m living my dream and making more things happen on a daily basis. The next logical step is to take that dream and expand it so that I can help more people, change more minds, and help form a new generation of creative citizens of this world.

So today, I bring you a list of:

28 things I will do while I’m 28

  1. Travel to 10 new states.
  2. Take 1 full week off work to reconnect with pen & paper, family, and friends.
  3. Book 15 speaking gigs on mindful spending, creative living, and entrepreneurship.
  4. Throw a great dinner party.
  5. Submit a book proposal.
  6. Write the book whether the proposal is accepted or not.
  7. Be on public radio.
  8. Travel to a foreign country I’ve never been to (that would be the vast majority of them).
  9. Visit my grandmother 5 times.
  10. Actually go to my 10 year high school reunion.
  11. Actually go to homecoming at my college.
  12. Keep my husband out of a soul-sucking job.
  13. Potty train my toddler.
  14. Host a live workshop on my own.
  15. Launch a website on changing the world with your money.
  16. Read 2 books a month. …a small goal, I know.
  17. Have a date night once a month with my husband.
  18. Have a date night once a month with Lola.
  19. See David Sedaris perform. …that’s cheating, I already have tickets!
  20. Write an article for a major magazine.
  21. Go to a concert. …when was the last time that happened?
  22. Start playing music again. …that will make my grandmother happy!
  23. Start teaching Lola about music.
  24. Not buy coffee for a whole week.
  25. Grow my mailing list to 10,000 subscribers.
  26. Choose your own adventure.
  27. Choose your own adventure.
  28. Choose your own adventure.

Okay, I got a little stuck. I need your help to complete my list! What fun things would you like to do this year? How will you challenge yourself? What am I missing? How should I stretch myself in my 28th year?

Leave your answers in the comments and I’ll add three more things to do to my list!

PS Don’t forget to enter to win a signed copy of Chris Guillebeau’s The Art of Non-Conformity! Giveaway ends Friday, September 10th, at noon Easter.

{ Wild Air – original mixed media painting by maechevrette }

the joy of hanging out with your peeps

sara selepouchin girlscantell

broken plate pendant company

without supervision design collective

special announcement at the bottom of this post!

Last week, I ventured down to Baltimore to attend the Buyers Market of American Craft (click on each pic to find out more!). This was my third time going and it’s become something that I really look forward to. This market is unusual in that it’s a trade show – not open to the public, you can’t buy anything! Which means it’s all about talking to people.

Gah, I love talking to my people.

It is so easily for each of us, you and me, to sit in our studios or offices or living rooms, churning out things with our hands, fingers, and minds and forget that we’re a part of something greater. We’re a part of a community that breathes and swells – and eats tapas.

Walking around Buyers Market is a chance to talk to people who are the life blood of this community. It’s the chance to find out what makes them tick, see them in amongst their wares, laugh, rant, goof off, drink way to much coffee, and sample the occasional adult beverage.

It’s business and it’s a party. Just the way I like it.

In any gathering like this, with so much on the line, there’s room for negativity. It’s possible to get down on yourself for a lack or sales or because the buyers are stopping by your booth or there just aren’t enough buyers. But when you accept the collective breath of the community, you can enjoy the possibilities as much as the physical rewards.

And when you get home, you can turn possibilities into gold.

tasha mckelvey bird bowls

new new york etsy street team

want more community? exciting announcement!

Megan Auman, jewelry designer & founder of Crafting an MBA – and my buddy, and I have teamed up to create an exclusive membership community for creative entrepreneurs. The Creative Empire is about finding the passion, profit, and community in running a business in the postmodern age.

I am LOVING this community! I love being surrounded by other entrepreneurs. It can be a lonely, misunderstood world of creating, running and expanding a business. It is comforting to have a place to go where I know others “GET IT”.
– Holly, Accounting Spot

I like that this forum is not used for complaining, negativity, or blatant promotion. The other members are very honest and open to sharing what works and what doesn’t, critique, positive feedback, and the peace of mind that you’re not alone. It’s a great avenue to tackle the more pressing subjects when you’re ready to move from hobby to career.
Tina Jett

We Believe

We believe that we learn best as a group. We believe that sustainable businesses are built on passion. And we believe that businesses built on passion should be profitable. Very profitable.

Who We Are

The Creative Empire is a community of like-minded creative business owners. We are entrepreneurs who are looking to get ahead of the game, learn from each other, try new strategies. This is a place for serious action and frank discussion.

We are not all crafters or artists. Inside, you’ll find writers, designers, coders, numbers people, and more. We are all looking to find out of the box solutions for running our businesses.

What We Do

Monthly training activities, conference calls, freebies, and lots of discussion on the forums – there’s a lot! Click over to find out more.

If The Creative Empire sounds like something that could help you realize the dream of having a successful, sustainable, passion-driven, profit-creating business, click over to the site to find out more. If not, I’ll catch you here on Scoutie Girl soon!

lights, camera, action, free ecourse!

I’m getting ready for the weekend – and taking most of next week off before some big life changes. But I wanted to offer you some specialized inspiration.

One of the greatest problems that face creative individuals is being overwhelmed with ideas while lacking focus. Maybe you struggle with this too. There are so many things you want to learn, do, and achieve. There are so many things you want to create. But when you get some extra time or a moment of peace, you find yourself unable to act.

To me, the thing holding you back from realizing your creative potential is ACTION. It doesn’t matter if your aspiration is to know how to sew or how to rule the world, the first step is always to take action.

If this is a skill you’re interested in honing, if you want to learn to use positive action to achieve big things, sign-up below. If you want to move past procrastination and into accomplishment, sign-up below. Eight lessons will be delivered to your inbox automatically.






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introducing julie green of up up creative

I am so pleased to (re)introduce you to Julie Green of up up creative.

Since the moment I “met” her, I’ve felt like Julie was a kindred spirit. She has insatiable drive, a fierce intellect, and a keen eye for design. She writes:

I started Up Up Creative in November 2008 after coming to the scary realization that writing my dissertation in English was making me miserable. A new mom battling postpartum depression, I suddenly found myself gripped by the fierce need to create.

Julie is going to be writing a new column on Scoutie Girl featuring the philosophy & strategy behind eco-friendly design. This isn’t just any “green finds” column – but a smart look at what will certainly be the future of great design.

Please give Julie a warm welcome!