16 responses to “The power of questions and how to find what you didn’t lose”

  1. Emma

    First of all – beautiful images!

    I was recently asked to respond to a bunch of questions and here were the first two:

    “What values or ethics are important to you?
    How do your values affect your actions?”

    It was at once easy and challenging! Of course I know what’s important to me, but how best to organize it into something I can share in words? I hoped to include all the Big Stuff, but I couldn’t write endlessly. So, those questions prompted me to reflect on what’s most important to me and how it directly relates to what I DO.

    And this harkens back to the recent World Cafe Conversation questions – “What are your ideals? How are your questions? How do these inform your work?”

    Ha! Can I throw *another* set of questions out there? There is actually another I’ve been working with lately:

    “What are the largest, most pressing problems you can help to solve using the gifts that are unique to you in all the universe?”

    I think for you, Gwyn, this question might be part of what sent you off the course that’s right for you. For me, this is a question I have to ask myself all the time to get back on track. (Interesting, eh?)

    The other question from the same source (http://www.orionmagazine.org/index.php/articles/article/5240/) is:

    “What do I get off on?”

    It is by doing the kind of work that you love, that energizes you, that excites you that you can do the best of what you’re able to do. There are lots of things I am capable of doing, but that drain me. It’s easy for me to forget and find myself doing that stuff rather than what really grows out of passion.

    1. Gwyn Michael

      I love all these questions Emma and always love your comments.

      Pondering that a list of these centering questions needs to be made a poster.

      I think you are right about that question that led me astray. My gifts are not in line with solving the most pressing problems I think about…at this time. That does not mean I can’t solve other problems with what I have. I am also looking at alternative views to the same problems.

      The article makes a good point boiling down to “do something”. The challenge for me is to keep “something” within a manageable scope, within the realm of what is possible at this time with what I have.

      1. Emma

        Right – it’s not how can your gifts help solve the most pressing problems you can think of.

        It’s what are the most pressing problems you CAN use your gifts to help solve.

  2. Kim Mailhot

    Very good questions. So good to come back to oyour Self this way.
    I will think on what I love about what I do today.

  3. Chantelle

    I recently remembered what I love about my work too. I had become so distracted by how I could make money from it, that I had forgotten why I had originally started down this path, to make money from doing something I love. After all there are a million ways to make money doing things I don’t love, why make something I love unpleasant just to turn a profit? I am reajusting to try to make the profit and joy align a bit better.

    1. Gwyn Michael

      “I am reajusting to try to make the profit and joy align a bit better.”

      Yes Chantelle this is a constant challenge.

  4. Laura Simms

    “I must remember to leave the light on this time.” Beautiful, Gwyn. Leave the light on!

    1. Gwyn Michael

      :-) working on it!

  5. Mireille

    Thanks so much… it helps me in a time of doubt and questioning!

  6. michelle reinhardt

    Hi Gwyn! Such a great post. I know I need better questions for myself–I get lost in not “what do I like about what I do” but “what should I do?”. It totally keeps me stuck and frusturated. I am going to try and find maybe some writing prompts or meditations or something to really start flushing out the answers and the voice. Thanks for the reminder. BTW, I LOVE your beautiful art.

  7. Marie Noelle

    First of all, your pictures are SO great!!!!

    Now, about the questions: I’m always trying to focus on what I want from life… what’s my ultimate goal… So when I do something, it has to be related to this ultimate goal! (something to do with being happy!)

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  10. amy

    Hi Gwyn,

    I just had a tiny epiphany. Your art (and the work of others) actually appeals to me even more when you aren’t trying to attach a heavy message to it. It’s beautiful; It reminds me of beauty and makes me want to do beautiful things. That is powerful & that is enough.

    I absolutely love this:
    “I want to show you magical discoveries I find with my camera and the layers of memories long ago and yet to be.”

    I feel the same way about my jewelry, but I struggle with a way to express it.

    One thing that helped me center myself lately was Lisa Work’s Passion Flavor exercise. It’s a free resource that was apparently worded just the right way to work for me. I’ve typed my flavor focus at the top of my to-do list for instant reference.

  11. Gwyn Michael

    Thank You Amy!!!

  12. Gwyn Michael

    Thanks again for all the comments. So encouraging!

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